THE RAINBOW WARRIOR PROPHECY

There is a Native American ancient prophecy that foretells of a dark time on Earth when people of all colors, cultures, and beings will come together to save the planet:

There will come a day when people of all races, colors, and creeds will put aside their differences. They will come together in love, joining hands in unification, to heal the Earth and all Her children. They will move over the Earth like a great Whirling Rainbow, bringing peace, understanding, and healing everywhere they go. Many creatures thought to be extinct or mythical will resurface at this time; the great trees that perished will return almost overnight. All living things will flourish, drawing sustenance from the breast of our Mother, the Earth.¨

We are The Rainbow Warriors and Lightworkers of this generation...

THIS IS A CALL TO RISE....

This Prophecy quoted above was retold by an over a century ago. It is known among several Native American Tribes, such as the Cree, Cherokee, and Hopi Tribes. However, you don't need to be from a tribe for the prophecy to resonate with you. In fact, if it does...then YOU are most likely are a Rainbow Warrior!

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An important part of the prophecy speaks to choosing of leaders. It is said a leader will not be the one who is the most successful, who has the support of the 1% or who speaks the loudest. The leaders of the Rainbow Warriors are those who are BEING wise and courageous, whose ACTIONS are speaking the loudest, those who are working for the highest benefit of all.

"The great spiritual Teachers who walked the Earth and taught the basics of the truths of the Whirling Rainbow Prophecy will return and walk amongst us once more, sharing their power and understanding with all. We will learn how to see and hear in a sacred manner. Men and women will be equals in the way Creator intended them to be; all children will be safe anywhere they want to go. Elders will be respected and valued for their contributions to life. Their wisdom will be sought out. The whole Human race will be called The People and there will be no more war, sickness or hunger forever. "

Navajo-Hopi Prophecy of the Whirling Rainbow

"In the time of the Seventh Fire, a New People would emerge. They would retrace their steps to find the wisdom that was left by the side of the trail long ago. Their steps would take them to the elders, who they would ask to guide them on their journey. If the New People remain strong in their quest, the sacred drum will again sound its voice. There will be an awakening of the people, and the sacred fire will again be lit. 

At this time, the light-skinned race will be given a choice between two roads. One road is the road of greed and technology without wisdom or respect for life. 

This road represents a rush to destruction. The other road is spirituality, a slower path that includes respect for all living things. If we choose the spiritual path, we can light yet another fire, an Eight Fire, and begin an extended period of Peace and healthy growth." Grandfather William Commanda, Circle of All Nations Prophecy of the Seven Fires of the Anishnabe, From Ancient Wampum Belt

The 'Warriors of the Rainbow' will spread messages and teach all people of Earth. They will teach them how the world today has turned away from the Great Spirit and that is why our Earth is 'sick'.

The Rainbow Warriors will show the peoples that this 'Ancient Spirit is full of love and understanding, and teach them how to make the Earth beautiful again. These warriors will give the people principles to follow to make their path right with the world.

Warriors of the Rainbow will teach the ancient practices of Unity, Love, and Understanding. And bring Harmony among one another to the four corners of the Earth.

The Path to heal ourselves and others will be challenging, as we face ignorance who will try and conquer and will bestow prejudice and hatred to those in their way. However, The Rainbow Warriors will be and must be dedicated, and unwavering in strength through their willpower and every beat of their hearts. They will find open minds and willing hearts that will follow them on this path of returning 'Mother Earth', all of her Earthlings and creations to beauty once more...  

THE DANGER OF THOUGHTS

"Unhappiness is the perceived gap between your expectations and reality."

You have a desire, and when it doesn't go the way you thought it should, you're sad. Because every expectation you imposed, in the form of a thought, created conditions that restricted what was trying to come through. There was a diving plan, and you got in the way. Now you're sad...

More on thoughts:

The mind is ideally meant for processing incoming information from your higher consciousness and only meant to run 10% of the show. Yet in our recent human development, we’ve had to adjust to the massive amount of incoming information, and the mind is out of control.

Everything you see was once a thought. Thoughts create invisible, yet measurable, energy (scientifically proven, not spiritual jargon). The entire world around us is also made up of energy. Does it not then make sense that your thoughts are creating your current reality?

I met a magical Spanish woman named Eva Lobo who has developed a system to teach children to stay present. She explained that all thoughts are based on 5 memory hard disks: intention, fantasy, culture, what is heard by others, and your own reminded experiences. They are all fake and fragmented knowledge that isn’t useful to filter the present moment.

She went on to explain that intuition is a gift from Source that can only come through a quiet mind. The quickest way to lose this gift is to layer thoughts and expectations of how, when, why or through whom it should arrive. Each of these thoughts creates dis-resonance and energetically pulls the goal further away from you.

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Advice: If you have a wish/goal/desire take 3 minutes a day to use your imagination to see, experience, and feel gratitude for it… then let it go and move on with your day! Do nothing to force it. You will soon be given an opportunity to make a choice that aligns with the vision. Make that choice! It’s that simple.

TRAPPED EMOTIONS: A JOURNEY TO DISEASE

Something ‘bad’ happens and you feel an unpleasant emotion. Should it go unprocessed, the energetic frequency of that emotion will find a weak spot in your body and lodge itself until you do. The pattern emits and attracts more of the same, and you will feel stuck in that emotion.

Next, it will start physically affecting the surrounding tissue—breaks, sprains, infections, illnesses, headaches, exhaustion—these are warning signs and your body communicating its need for your attention. Finally, a disease might develop as its last and desperate, screaming attempt to be heard!

When emotions are processed real-time, pain and disease can be avoided. There are many ways to process: therapy, journaling, conversation, body movement, yoga, mantras, rebounding, BRT, to name a few (and subjects for future entries). Anything to get the emotion outside of your body. However, the most effective way that I’ve discovered is using Emotion Codes (see full article for link and more tools).

Pharmaceuticals, while helpful to some cases, are deeply flawed. They create more side effects and mask symptoms, further burying the root cause and ultimately the key to your health. Natural remedies are wonderful, but they too are only a half of the truth.

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We already have everything we need within us to heal. I truly believe that the fastest path to optimal health is energetic work. I am seeing a future when illnesses and even late stage diseases will be healed on the energetic planes—heading faster, deeper and more permanent results.

In Health and Happiness,
Hayley Starr

THE 7 MAJOR CHAKRAS

Chakras are a fundamental part of our body’s anatomy. Yes, they are invisible, yet still very real! They govern much of our energetic and emotional waves. Imbalanced chakras lead to mental, physical and emotional imbalances. Balanced chakras make you happy… and I truly want you to be happy! Here is a simply introduction to your seven major chakras…

About…

Some believe there are sixteen, others report there are nine, but most agree that there are seven main chakras. They exist where the seven types of tissue converge. Each is associated with a gland and section of the spine that run along our centers, both on the front and back sides of our bodies.

Charkas govern varying areas of our lives — abundance, Love, creativity, confidence, to name a few — and when we experience imbalance, you can be sure that there is an energetic discord in the associated chakra. Each center also resonates with a color frequency, which can be used to heal the imbalances. There are also smaller secondary chakras, subtle body chakras, and even micro chakras. Let us begin with the basics:

A Breakdown...

- The Root Chakra is red and governs stability, abundance and family. It is located at the tailbone. It is associated with the reproductive glands and controls sexual development.

- The Sacral Chakra is orange and rules creativity, abundance, childbearing and sensuality. It is located approximately 2 inches below the navel, and is associated with the reproductive system and sacrum. It is connected to the adrenal glands, which regulate the immune system and metabolism.

- The Solar Plexus chakra is yellow and assists with confidence, discernment and instinct. It is located just below where the bottom of your ribs meet, at the base of the sternum. It is connected to the pancreas and regulates metabolism.

- The Heart Chakra is green (sometimes pink) and promotes compassion, Love and healing. It is located in the center of the chest, a few inches above your heart. It is connected to the thymus gland, which regulates the immune system.

- The Throat Chakra is blue and helps with communication, actualizing purpose and connections. It is located in your throat and is associated with the thyroid, which regulates body temperature and metabolism.

- Third Eye Chakra is indigo and governs ascension, non-judgement and intuition. It is located just above the center of your brows, and is associated with the pituitary gland, which produces hormones and governs the function of the previous 5 glands.

- The Crown Chakra is violet and rules wisdom, expansion and unity. It is located at the crown of your head. It is associated with the pineal gland, which regulates biological cycles, including sleep.

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Chakra facts…

- Chakras are like plates with a hole in the middle which the central channel (or Sushumna) runs through. The chakra system functions best when the chakras are of similar size. Variance in size can cause imbalance in health or emotion. The chakras generally energetically rotate clockwise. It’s normal for them to move counter-clockwise at different times during the day.

- If a chakra chronically rotates backwards it can often be corrected by holding a pendulum over it. Pendulums can also be used to gauge the size, direction and/or rotation (more on pendulums soon). Holding kyanite will also help bring the chakras’ size and rotation into balance.

- Chakras can be cleansed with singing bowls to help release trauma, stuck emotions or heaviness in the centers. Chanting the mantras associated with each, out loud, three times helps to balance each chakra (instructions here). One can also listen to sound frequencies or binaural beats for optimum health (links to suggested tools in full article on website).

- Each is associated with plants, flowers, oils, stones, and colors to name a few, which can be incorporated into your work with each chakra. They may also contain energetic residue from past lives and ancestors. Each is also associated with a realm, and contains beings that may be guides or antagonists to us.

“If we can all at least pronounce one Sanskrit word correctly, let it be this one: CHAKRA. Not ‘shaakra’. Thank you. Namaste.”

Mucho Love,
Hayley Starr

( From the works of healer Christine Machiraju )

“If we can all at least pronounce one Sanskrit word correctly, let it be this one: CHAKRA. Not ‘shaakra’. Thank you. Namaste.”

-Best Friend/Yoga Genius Rachel Jackson

SPIRIT GUIDES - 101

We have spirit guides. I know this to be true. How? Because I connect with them daily. The proof? My life is magical. People often ask how they present- it’s a sixth sense. Some people see them, others hear them; I experience a combination of both. I recently traveled to Texas to train with an incredible woman and light worker named Bonni Cook Yardley. She helped deepen my connection and understanding of how the guides operate.

Look, you can choose to believe me and reap the rewards of their service, or not…the choice is always yours! This week, I open Pandora's box to the other side…

Some facts about your guides:

Each (conscious) adult human has an average of 3 Inner Panel Spirit Guides, and usually no more than 6 at a time.

You hire them, consciously or unconsciously, to help you navigate through certain periods of your life.

Each has training and extensive knowledge in your current pursuits.

They are considerably more evolved than you are, otherwise, they would have no business guiding you!

They were once embodied on this plane, and have a deep understanding of Earth and its rules.
Guides have a female or male soul. Some might disagree, this is simply my experience and understanding.

They have a bird’s eye view and see the bigger picture, making their perspective invaluable in decision-making.

We exist in a dimension of Free Will, so in order to help you, they will need your permission

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You can easily communicate through thought or just by speaking to them.

There are also Masters, Teachers, Archangels, Angels, Technicians, Outer Panel Guides and so much more... all topics for future entries.

There is such a thing as negative guides…

… and they (unfortunately) are not uncommon. We unconsciously hire them in moments of depression, tragedy, and despair. They are the sneaky voice that overrides your better judgment, and will often convince you to sabotage your highest good. Negative guides are destructive and must be fired!

ENERGETIC SHIELDS

Shields are vibrational frequencies around our bodies that neutralize negativity. They extend around our parameters, keeping our physical and subtle bodies in sacred, safe, and protected space. Here are some facts about your shields:

- The shields vibrate at a D# tone in the second octave above middle C. This is the same tone created when you burn Sage, the tone of sea salt, the third eye chakra, and the ohm sound.

- Positive souls and beings will have earned shields over lifetimes of positive work, in service of others, and from self-love. They are also necessary in a world filled with negative energies.

- Each Shield is 13 in thick and you earn them one inch at a time. Most beings will have earned two or three shields. Once you earn shields they are always yours and can be replaced.

- When shields go down, you can get irritable and annoyed. Feeling raw and attacked by the outside world.

SOMETIMES PEOPLE HAVE FEW OR NO SHIELDS!

This could be due to one of a few reasons:

- The shields can be lost due to psychic attack.
You dissipated your own shields do to a belief in victimization.

- Shields are worn down when you’re in negative spaces, surrounded by negativity and negative people.

- The shields become porous from excessive use of drugs or alcohol, making you vulnerable to negativity and darkness to penetrate and take hold in your system. (Yes, even plant medicines)

- Shields can be worn down by directing negativity at yourself — as in being hard on yourself. They can also be worn down when in a very stressful situation.

- They can be removed if you have made an allegiance to negative forces (by whom? The Light).



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- Shields mold to the configuration of who you are now, like a sleeve. As we self-improve, we may shift form and needs, which can cause our shields to break.

- Deep ‘Shadow Work’ requires shields come off in order to gain access to the deepest parts of ourselves. They will eventually reinstate, often stronger, but for a time you may feel raw and vulnerable. (Yes, even plant medicines)

If you suspect your shields have been breached, my teacher Bonni offers sessions. Find her contact information in the Suggested Healers section of my website: thestarseed.com/healers

(Writings compiled from the Soul Genesis teachings of Bonni Cook Yardley. Art by Hayley Starr. (2018) Watercolor & pen on paper. Please note that this is not an accurate depiction of the shields described above.)

A VIRGIN'S GUIDE TO BURNING MAN 2018

Dear Virgin,

You have made the brave and life-enhancing decision to journey to Black Rock City! I may not know you, but I'm soooo excited for you!

In the spirit of service, this is a list of the tricks and hacks for virgins and veterans alike. These are the secrets you ought to know and likely won’t find anywhere else. Welcome to our dusty family!

It’s an honor to have you,

Hayley Starr

Preparation:

- Don’t research TOO much before coming or look at pictures from previous Burns. Let yourself experience it anew the first time. I really pray I’m there to see the look on your face the first night you walk into the Playa. If not physically, I’ll be with you in spirit.

- READ THE 10 PRINCIPLES!!!!! (https://bit.ly/2GXhEmD) Like, REALLY really read them.

- This year’s theme is ‘Robots’, and it’s the topic BM is asking us to consider. Much of the art will be centered around this theme. No, this doesn’t mean you have to dress like a Robot (unless you want to). Read more here: https://burningman.org/event/brc/2018-art-theme-i-robot/

The Energetics:

- If you run into someone more than once (out of 70,000), stop and talk to them... Spirit has them delivering an important message to you!

- FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON’T USE YOUR PHONES (unless on airplane mode to take pics, yet even that is taking you out of the moment). DON’T TEXT PEOPLE TO MAKE PLANS!!!!! YOU WIIIILLLLLLL LOOSE THE MAGIC OF WHAT BM HAS TO OFFER YOU. LEAVE YOUR F*CKING PHONE ALONE AND AT HOME. Consider bringing a camera instead. (Yes, I’m upset… Phones are RUINING the Flow of BM)

- Gifting is a huge part of the experience, bring something, anything that you think would be a nice contribution. If you don’t, fret not, you get a pass your first time!

- Follow the music, your heart and your gut… NOT the people or the party!!!

- ‘Saxaphone’ is a code word for ‘I need a moment to myself and am called to separate from the group to follow my Flow’. Let your friends know the word and don’t be afraid to use it. (Thank you, Daniel Claussen)

The Basics:

- Don’t be precious about your cleanliness. Let go. Playa dust makes everyone pretty!

- There are only 2 things to purchase on the Playa: ice and coffee. BRING ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING ELSE WITH YOU.

- Eat well. Don’t skip available meals. Carry a snack (protein bars are good) in case of emergency to avoid glycemic disasters.

- Hydrate constantly. Bring water canteen with you always. No plastic bottles! Plastic is evil for the environment and when heated, will leach hormone mimickers (yuk!).

- Electrolytes capsules are the best! (also see my List of Must-Haves Below) http://amzn.to/2wjHEmq

- Log on to Burner Maps and let people know where you’re staying so you can try and find each other! https://burnermap.com/welcome.php

- There are cops and rangers everywhere on the Playa. Be low key about your drug use (should you use them) and share everything BUT drugs with strangers. THIS IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT AND A MUST READ FOR ALL… How to deal with the cops: https://burners.me/2014/08/17/prepare-for-the-playa-police/

- Keep a paper copy of your ID on you at all times.

- MOOP is BM for ‘Matter Our Of Place’, and it is NOT tolerated even one little bit. Don’t pee in the dirt, don’t spill water, no cig butts (buy a Juul!), no sparkles, no feathers, none of it! Pick up all found trash, EVEN IF IT’S NOT YOURS.

- Bring ear plugs and eye masks in case you need to sleep during the day, which is likely.

- The Playa dust is super alkaline and can be irritating to skin. You’ll want to clean your hands and feet regularly with wipes, witch hazel or diluted white vinegar.

- See a few sunrises, and definitely don’t miss the sunset. You can always go to bed early and wake up for sunrise!

- Pack 2 of anything you can't live without (water bottle, goggles etc).

- Pack a "go home" outfit including shoes, and put in a ziploc bag, then another ziploc bag. Label "HOME", do not open until after first post-Playa shower.

- Here’s a basic packing list: https://survival.burningman.org/your-su…/survival-checklist/

- Find a guy named Matty Mo and give him a big hug.

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Prep/Adornment:

- It’s hot as sh*t during the day, and cold as balls at night. Pack accordingly.

- Bring close-toed shoes that are comfortable and easy to bike in.

- No heels, they make it impossible to walk in the dust. Platforms and boots are preferable.

- Bring goggles and a bandana for dust storms, although I’m sure you’ve already gathered this.

- Tutu Tuesdays is a thing. Bring a tutu to wear on Tuesday.

- Label everything with your name, number and camp address!

- If using a tent, consider bringing a 10x10 shade structure to put above it if you’re a day sleeper, as the daytime heat can be unbearable and we’re expecting a hot year!

Bikes:

- YOU MUST HAVE A BIKE!!! Please don’t buy one and just leave it there. You may believe you’re doing someone a favor but you’re not, it’s major moop… Why not rent one? https://playabikerepair.com/products/burning-man-bike-rental

- Decorate your bike so you can find it in the seas of other bikes. Park it next to something stationary so that you can always find it again. Consider getting something like a pole to attach and identify it more easily. Tons of stuff on Amazon.

- ALWAYS lock your bike, not because people suck, but because people will accidentally take yours or are too high to know the difference. Buy a lock with a code, not one with a lock key, as you are likely to loose it.

- If you’re bringing a regular bike and all your friends have electrical ones, you will lag and slow them down… Which is annoying for those who’ve invested in an electric bike. Consider renting one! https://blackrockbikerentals.com/

- Bike baskets are very useful!

Advice:

- Don’t hook up with strangers after Wednesday! After Wednesday, people’s immune systems start to break down and any dormant STDs may be flaring. Keep it clean! (Thanks for this gem, Brandon Michael Anderson)

- “Let go of the desire to hold on to things. I found myself wanting to get phone numbers / emails of people I met at the burn immediately after interacting with them but experienced the burn in a better way when I just let those good experiences exist without any expectation... I found that the people that were supposed to be in my life always found their way back to me, one way or another." (Thank you, Tiger Kaufman)

- Take time to get lost. Make no plans. See where you’re taken, who you meet. GO ON SOLO MISSIONS... AT LEAST ONE!!!!! “The best experiences take place when you venture out on your own. Give yourself the time and freedom to do so. You will always find your people... especially when you aren't looking.” (Thank you, Erica Holland)

- Consciously pace yourself, it's a seven day marathon. (Thank you, Ken Brand)

- If you have a daily practice, DON’T STOP. Grounding is crucial. Consider a mini-alter as well.

- BM is pure magic, AND there’s also dark energy at play. Read this article for some simple tools to protect yourself: https://www.thestarseed.com/darksideofbm

- If you are camping with a plug-and-play camp (BM for fancy camp) your first year, be AWARE that you are technically going against the BM principle of self reliance! So be SUPER GRATEFUL that someone is working hard to do the hard work for you.

- Don’t be a Sparkle Pony!!! BM for annoying hot girl who doesn’t contribute or help her camp, expecting everything to be done FOR her… EWWWW!

- Let go of your self and just be you. (Yes, Adobe Kochina!!!)

TRAPPED EMOTIONS: A JOURNEY TO DISEASE

Something ‘bad’ happens and you feel an unpleasant emotion. Should it go unprocessed, the energetic frequency of that emotion will find a weak spot in your body and lodge itself until you do. The pattern emits and attracts more of the same, and you will feel stuck in that emotion.

Next, it will start physically affecting the surrounding tissue—breaks, sprains, infections, illnesses, headaches, exhaustion—these are warning signs and your body communicating its need for your attention. Finally, a disease might develop as its last and desperate, screaming attempt to be heard!

When emotions are processed real-time, pain and disease can be avoided. There are many ways to process: therapy, journaling, conversation, body movement, yoga, mantras, rebounding, BRT, to name a few (and subjects for future entries). Anything to get the emotion outside of your body. However, the most effective way that I’ve discovered is using Emotion Codes (see full article for link and more tools).

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Pharmaceuticals, while helpful to some cases, are deeply flawed. They create more side effects and mask symptoms, further burying the root cause and ultimately the key to your health. Natural remedies are wonderful, but they too are only a half of the truth.

We already have everything we need within us to heal. I truly believe that the fastest path to optimal health is energetic work. I am seeing a future when illnesses and even late stage diseases will be healed on the energetic planes—heading faster, deeper and more permanent results.

In Health and Happiness,
Hayley Starr

EXPECTATIONS - DEATH TO DREAMS

“Unhappiness is the perceived gap between
your expectations & reality.”

You have a desire, and when it doesn’t go the way you thought it should, you’re sad. Because every expectation you imposed, in the form of a thought, created conditions that restricted what was trying to come through. There was a divine plan, and you got in the way. Now you’re sad.

The mind is ideally meant for processing incoming information from your higher consciousness, and only meant to run 10% of the show. Yet in our recent human development, we’ve had to adjust to the massive amount of incoming information, and the mind is out of control.

Everything you see was once a thought. Thoughts create invisible, yet measurable, energy (scientifically proven, not spiritual jargon). The entire world around us is also made up of energy. Does is not then make sense that your thoughts are creating your current reality?

I met a magical Spanish woman named Eva Lobo who has developed a system to teach children to stay present. She explained that all thoughts are based on 5 memory hard disks: intention, fantasy, culture, what is heard by others, and your own reminded experiences. They are all fake and fragmented knowledge that aren’t useful to filter the present moment.

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She went on to explain that Intuition is a gift from Source that can only come through a quiet mind. The quickest way to lose this gift is to layer thoughts and expectations of how, when, why or through whom it should arrive. Each of these thoughts creates dis-resonance and energetically pulls the goal further away from you.

Advice: If you have a wish/goal/desire take 3 minutes a day to use your imagination to see, experience, and feel gratitude for it… then let it go and move on with your day! Do nothing to force it. You will soon be given an opportunity to make a choice that aligns with the vision. Make that choice! It’s that simple.

WHAT IT REALLY MEANS TO BE A QUEEN (OR KING)

I meditate weekly, diving deep on a specific intention/question. Yesterday, I asked what held me back from motherhood and this is the golden nugget received:

“Fear. You are afraid that your life will no longer be yours. THAT is the illusion, thinking that your life is your OWN, but you are a part of the collective and your life is in service. Whether on your mission to bring forth clarity and truth or in your personal life as a partner or mother, your life is not designed to be your own and you are not designed to think of yourself as an individual. YOU ARE PUBLIC PROPERTY. (So is everybody else, incidentally)

You and your friends call yourselves Queens in jest, but you should know what that truly means. To be a Queen is to govern, care for and guide your people. It is your responsibility to make certain your kingdom is fed, working and happy. To hear their cries, answer to their needs and advance your civilization. As a Queen you carry far more responsibility than the average person.

A Queen/King who is all about her/himself and her/his own needs will fail and will fall; look to what famously happened to Marie Antoinette and countless others who've been overthrown. THIS is the old paradigm: those who are greedy, only advancing themselves and their circles, no matter the cost to majority, to the planet itself or its creatures.


We are all public property, and designed to advance the greatest good.

Go forth,

TEAM GOD”


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A MASTERS IN LOVE

The purpose is to choose Love in a realm where you’re given the option not to...

I’ve nearly mastered self-Love, that one took years. Next, I turned my Love to friends in the form of loyalty and support, and feel I’ve done quite well with that. I’ve gathered, through my few encounters with romantic Love, that it itself embodies a unique flavor and color. I’ve also witnessed that the Love of a child seems to be an entirely unique facet of Love that I look forward to experiencing one day.

I’m now seeing love as a palette of colors and flavors and I want to be a master and connoisseur of them all. The mission seems clear: We’re on Earth to get our Masters in Love. I notice that on this Earth plane, choosing joy and love doesn’t always come easily! I have experienced higher realms and they share one distinct similarity: Love is pretty much all there is… lovely but boring! In this incarnation we’ve chosen a plane that allows us to choose Love OR fear. Only that fear is an illusion, but it sure does make for a fun game!

It’s important to note that we will be given endless opportunities to choose Love, and when we finally opt out of a fear cycle, and do choose Love, the Heavens and all its angels celebrate it as a victory for all! So, if (the state of) Heaven is Love, then the formula should be obvious: the more Love is chosen here, the closer to experiencing Heaven we shall be. Choose love, connect with others, be an example of Love- a Master of Love! Be grateful for the chance to play, and even more so to the tireless powers that make it possible for you!

Hearts,
Hayley

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YOUR PERSONALITY SUCKS ;)

There is your personality, and then there is your soul. Your soul has its own flavor and essence, and it is likely very different than the one you are currently living. Your current attributes, idiosyncrasies, likes, dislikes, expressions and mannerisms are mostly the sum total of what you’ve collected and learned in this lifetime (others too).

For example, my personality in this life is headstrong, intense, stubborn, a know-it-all, impatient, fiery, self-centered, entrepreneurial, bossy, praise-seeking, needs to be seen and appreciated, driven, obsessed by time, just to name a few. The essence of my soul, which I’ve had the great pleasure of meeting a few times, is peaceful, funny, gentle, powerful, all-knowing, feminine, sexual, connected, trusting, faith-filled, light-beaming, patient, inspired, inspiring, and a creator of the highest order.

I can now clearly see that my next evolutionary step is to begin to shed the smallness of the personality, making way to reveal my truest and ultimate self.

How? We begin by paying attention. Get to know who your spirit actually is. What parts of you feel like deep truth? Take stock of your true essence and start making a conscious effort to operate and react more often from that place. When you speak, complain, make a comment or choice, stop and notice which part of you is doing so. At first just notice it. Later, try to catch yourself before making personality choices. The most rewarding choices and joyful decisions ultimately come from the soul.

Remember this:

Fear is Human. Spirit is Love.

Your soul has no fear.

When we operate from this ancient part of ourself, everything falls into place. When we get our personalities out of the way, life can flow with ease and with grace. Everything we’ve ever dreamed of and much much more can find its way to us…. and life is GOOD.

SO good,

Hayley Starr

I FEEL FOR MEN

Sometimes men think they have to lie, going against the integrity and honor they hold so dear, simply because they are afraid of how we’ll react. Men don’t enjoy lying but they enjoy our crazy, off-the-handle, emotionally-charged reactions even less.

If a man felt that he could tell you something upsetting without hurting you, he would. Have you noticed how incredibly uncomfortable women’s tears make men? Making a woman cry is the ULTIMATE FAIL, because men want nothing more than to please and make us happy.

I want to be a better woman and hold a safe space for men to reveal their honest truth. I am also an emotional creature by design, so I will have to teach my men to fearlessly hold space for my tears.

(These are thought extensions of Alison Armstrong’s works. In case you haven’t received my constant memo: ALL would HIGHLY benefit from reading and listening to everything she’s created.

ON FINDING LIFE PURPOSE

People say that we should wait until we are full and complete individuals before attempting to attract a long-term romantic partner; that who you choose will be a reflection of where you’re at, so best to be at your best! So why should finding your dream job/life’s mission be any different?

I have a dear friend who worries about her current lack of clear direction, AND she’s simultaneously doing a tremendous amount of self-work. I commented that she probably wouldn’t want whatever job she’d attract now, and that the position that awaits her on the other side of her personal development will surely suit her needs best.

If you’re struggling to find true purpose, my suggestion would be to do as much work on yourself as possible until it becomes clear. In the meantime you’ll be supplied with something temporary, as the Universe never leaves you without the means to care for yourself. Trick is not to get stuck or too comfortable there… for that is what some call mediocrity.

One day your call will come, and my deepest hope for you is that you’ll be prepared with the tools and wisdom to say ‘YES!!!’ and take your rightful place in the unique assignment that was designed JUST for you.

Fingers, Toes & Eyelashes Crossed,

Hayley Starr 💫